How To Lead A Good Life With A Healthy Relationship?

Relationships what does the essence of the word mean, many meaning exists such as: “a state of connectedness between people”, “a state involving mutual dealings between people or parties or countries”, “are the links that hold networks together: the links between members and the network organizer, and the links that members have with each other”, “relationships are a form of energy exchange
that we invite into our lives to understand more of who we are”. Fundamentally the word “being connected” is the core of the meaning of the word.So how do you connect…?In order to connect you have to make a conscious decision to initiate and invest in others. It seems in life we work around unconscious and are almost acting like machines not being aware of yourself and others around you. In order have a fulfilled and healthy relationship we to change our mind-set.
Valuing People
You have to care about people and expect the best of people. First assume that people intentions are good unless they prove themselves otherwise. Start by valuing people’s successes and not by their failures. Give people your friendship rather than requesting them their friendships.
Understanding People
This is not always the easiest thing to do. In order to start your steps in understanding people you have to know the following:
- People are insecure, give them confidence
- People want to feel special, compliment them on their positive attributes
- People desire to have a better tomorrow, give them hope that it will be a better day tomorrow.
- People are selfish, speak to their needs first in order to open a door.
- People want to be successful, help them towards their goals.
Add value to others
- Look for strengths in others and promote these strengths
- Always encourage rather than discouraging people with positive things.
Respect yourself and others
Everybody wants to be respected, in order to respect others you have to respect yourself first. Note that respects are not just given but earned. It is like honourable men which give up their lives to fight the cause of the greater good of men, people respect those who put things bigger themselves before themselves. Imagine giving up your freedom for the freedom of others.
Put your emotions aside…
One of the most difficult things for all humans is put our emotions aside and think about our anger, our hurts and our disappointments. Do talk about your feelings and emotions but do not let this be the obstacle to ensure that your relationships grow.
I hope that this few pointers will provide you with a good foundation to start your relationships moving into a positive direction. Start Living A Sensational Life!

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