Does this describe your feelings at the moment? Do you want to Get Your ex-girlfriend Back and work things out.
I
will be 100% honest and tell you that I have been there and it is not
pretty. I was in the situation where I wanted to work it out with
ex-girlfriend. Right our wrongs and work it out. So I am writing this
article on How to Get Your ex-girlfriend from a personal perspective.
When you are in relationship with someone, you develop Feelings. I remember the moment that I fell in love - it was magical.
Feelings for that special someone are
important. They are developed over a period of time. Some people fall
in love within a matter of days. Some people take months or years. The
point is the feelings are there. If you break up with your girlfriend,
those feelings do not disappear automatically. Your ex-girlfriend still
has these same feelings also. This is important. Feelings are always
there. I can testify to that. A good example of this is; if you break
up with your girlfriend. She meets someone new. Its hurts to see her
with someone else. This feeling of hurt will stay with you until you
can win her back.
One of the best ways to get your Ex-Girlfriend is to remember the times that you shared.
Also,
remember that time that you and your ex-girlfriend went on vacation.
Those were good times. Also, when you and your ex-girlfriend went to
the movies. How we laughed at the movie that we saw that day. Memories.
These also bring back those feelings that we discussed. Remember the
good memories are important. The laughs that were shared. Buying your
first home together, having your first child together. These memories
give us a sense of achievement. Memories that we built together.
Memories that keep us united. There are different good memories that
couples will have together. Have a think about these memories. Remember
how felt, how she felt and what those memories mean to you. Also the
bad memories are important. Why were we arguing about this or that.
These memories are also powerful because when you get back together
with your ex-girlfriend, you will use these bad memories to prevent
those hateful feeling returning and ensure that you do not have the
same arguments over and over again.
Ok, now the million dollar question is - How do I Get My ex-girlfriend Back.
Give
yourself some time to think about your relationship. Sit in the house
in pajamas all day eating ice cream (or whatever your comfort food is)
if you want to. Remember those feelings and memories. Good and Bad.
Remember that your emotions have taken a bit of a beating recently and
you are feeling low and sorrowful. However, you need to realise that
sometime you will have to get up and resume your life. So do not sit
around your for too long before depression kicks in and that is one
avenue that you definitely do not want to take.
When
you have risen from your sorrow and you are ready to tackle life.
Think about what kind of person that you are - what changes can I make?
I strongly believe that you
need to do something that you enjoy. Perhaps take up a new hobby. There
will be many activities that you can try. You can enrol at the gym,
change your appearance, get that new hairstyle, buy new clothes, apply
for a new job with a bigger salary, perhaps. I went to the gym to
improve my fitness and more importantly; my life.
You
do need to work out what were the problems that you caused. Can you
change to ensure that you do not cause these problems again. Become
more tolerant of others and their beliefs, change your attitude, change
your anger. Fix these issues within yourself and then you can begin to
win your ex-girlfriend back.
Positivity.
This is key. Are you now more positive? Do you have a better
understanding of your life and what your flaws are. Yes. Now that you
are more positive person - I believe that you can now make contact with
your ex-girlfriend again. Show off the new you. Show that you have
made positive changes to your life. Make contact with your
ex-girlfriend, do not be full on! Keep it light and casual. Let your
ex-girlfriend see for herself that you have made dramatic changes to
your life. Be cool and start talking.
One
of the things that I used was - Go back out on that first date again.
Start from scratch. Get to know one another again! Let your
ex-girlfriend see your great qualities. Your ex-girlfriend may even
surprise you by asking to get back together first.
I
believe that in order to get your ex-girlfriend back, you need to
identify your own faults and mistakes. Become a better person and
change your outlook on life.
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